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Parenting Consulting

Overview

A Parenting Consultant has essentially three functions - mediation, coaching, and arbitration regarding parenting issues. Parents are in the best position to make decisions about their children and will be assisted in doing so whenever possible. The Parenting Consultant facilitates an environment where parents can make those decisions together and makes recommendations or decisions when parents are unable to agree. Parenting Consultants are usually named in court orders, but do not have to be. Both parties must agree to work with a Parent Consultant. The Parenting Consulting process begins by meeting with both parties together. That meeting is administrative in nature and serves to:

  • Explain the Parenting Consulting process
  • Schedule appointments
  • Identify possible collateral resources
  • Gain familiarity with background information
  • Describe the child(ren) involved
  • Review agreements and court orders currently in place
  • Establish an agenda of items to be addressed
  • Legalities and Mediation

Legalities & Mediation

Parents are in the best position to make decisions about their children and will be assisted in doing so whenever possible. The Parenting Consultant facilitates an environment where parents can make those decisions together and makes recommendations or decisions when parents are unable to agree. Even though the Parenting Consultant will facilitate negotiations, there is not the same confidentiality of information as that provided through mediation.

All communications with the parents (and others the Parenting Consultant has contacted) are subject to disclosure among parties. Statements made to the Parenting Consultant by the attorneys and parents may lose the protection of the attorney-client privilege. A Parenting Consultant is a neutral party, and therefore does not take cases in which there is any conflict of interest or bias toward either parent. However, it is part of a Parenting Consultant's job to develop opinions about what best meets the needs of children and to advocate for their best interests.

Parent Consultant

Introductory Sessions & Fees

Parents may have an introductory session with the Parenting Consultant before contracting for services. This session can be done together with both parents present or separately. This introductory session is billed at the regular hourly rate, and allows the parents to meet the Parenting Consultant and to ask any questions they may have about the process. The session is also an opportunity for parents to share any background information they feel is relevant for the Parenting Consultant's understanding of the situation.

If a court order is already in place naming Ascend Family Institute as the Parenting consultant, Ascend Family Institute still requires an introduction session so each parent has the opportunity to share whatever information they feel is relevant to Ascend's understanding of the issues. Parents MUST meet with Ascend Family Institute PRIOR to presenting any issues for resolution.

Once the parents and Parenting Consultant agree to work together, the process begins with the signing of the Parenting Consultant Fee Agreement. The parties make an initial deposit, which will cover the first 10 hours of work together (excluding office visits, which are paid at the time of the appointment). The initial deposit, the signed contract, and a copy of the Court Order appointing a Parenting Consultant must be received prior to scheduling or holding any additional appointments.

Meetings & Attendees

Meetings take place in the Parenting Consultant’s office. Sometimes it is possible to proceed by phone, e-mail, or with written correspondence. If either parent is uncomfortable with a joint meeting, this may be discussed with the Parenting Consultant before the appointment. Subsequent meetings may be conducted with:

  • Both parents together
  • Each parent alone
  • Each parent and the children
  • New spouses or significant others
  • The children (together or separately, when necessary)

Results

Although parents set specific goals and objectives, it is the hope of the Parenting Consultant that a number of things occur as a result of the process:

  • Agreements are reached on the issues presented
  • In the absence of agreement, that decisions will be made that will bring closure to the issues
  • That communication about the children improves
  • That parents learn to resolve their own conflicts without outside assistance whenever possible
  • That things settle into somewhat predictable patterns and routines so that children are able to be as comfortable as possible
  • Above all, that the children eventually experience peaceful, loving home environments that contribute to their healthy development and overall well-being

Forms

When you call to make your initial appointment, you will be given directions to create a patient portal. You can fill out and submit your intake paperwork through your own secure portal and it will be delivered to your therapist electronically in time for your intake appointment. Though copies of our forms are provided for your convenience, you do not need to print out the forms available on this website as you will be able to sign them electronically when you arrive for your session.